Definition of Love Phobia

definition of love phobia

Hello guys, welcome back to our website again. Today I want to share you about one of the strangest phobias for me. It’s called Love Phobia. So, today I will tell you about the definition of love phobia because I’m pretty sure this kind of phobia is rarely known by common people.

Love Phobia or called Philophobia is one of the strangest phobias for me. One of the human biggest desire is being loved and to fall in love, but not for people with philophobia. They are afraid of being loved and falling in love. Unfortunately, the patient for Philophobia or love phobia can’t feel the feeling of falling in love.

What is Love Phobia?

First, before we start to discuss love phobia, I want to ask all of my audience. Do you know what’s love? Do you really understand what’s the meaning of love itself? Are you sure you know about love? Why are you so interested to read this article?

The meaning of love itself is an emotion of a strong feeling of affection and sexual attraction to someone of the opposite or same gender. So, the question is why is she/he afraid of love? Do they have experience something really bad and feels afraid of that experience?

Love Phobia or Philophobia itself is a mental disease. People with Philophobia have experienced the worst part of falling in love or maybe they just hear from someone that deeply broken because of love. Philophobia itself caused by deep disappointment to love, fear of commitment, deeply broken heart, grief feeling when being rejected. This all feeling are recorded in our unconscious mind and will shape a new phobia in yourself.

How to Cure Love Phobia?

After sharing about the definition of love phobia. I will share you about how to indicating someone with this mental disease because I’m sure this mental disease not well-known for common people. Here are some of the indication your friend, brother, or even sister having a love phobia or also called Philophobia:

  1. Afraid to think and imagining anything about love. People with this phobia will try to avoid everything about love because of their phobia.
  2. Avoiding anything about love. People with this phobia will try not in contact with love and if they are trapped in the condition where someone falls in love with them, they will try to keep the distance between him/her with them.
  3. There is an extremely rare condition where someone feels like dying when they are falling in love.
  4. Somehow, if people with philophobia binding a relation with someone else they will become extremely possessive.

You must be asking how to cure love phobia right? Well, I will share you some tips to cure this mental illness.

  1. Start reading a book. I will recommend you a book to overcome this mental illness, try to read The Anxiety and Phobia Workbook by Edmund Bourne.
  2. Try to share with others or also known as Talk Therapy. Sharing your problem will make the burden become lighter and also make it a lot easier.
  3. Try to ask psychotherapist about your phobia
  4. Take a medicine if needed but I advise you this is the last way If all three ways above are not working.

Thanks for reading my article about the definition of love phobia. I hope my article can help you to fight this mental illness and I will pray for your recovery. If you find this article helpful, don’t forget to share. See you in my next article.

The Benefits Of Hugging

The benefits of hugging

Hello guys, welcome to our new website. Today I want to share you about the benefits of hugging for our health and social life. In some culture, a hug is prohibited if there is no relation between that people. There are not many people know about the benefits of hugging. Here, I will share you the benefits of hugging.

There are still so many couples who show and prove their love to their lover with hugs them tightly. However, according to a medical statement, there are still a lot of benefits of hugging for our relationship and health advantages.

The Benefits of Hugging for Social Life

Everyone want to share their love with their loved one. They want to express their love with unique and different ways than other people. They want to become unique and different so they can impress their loved ones. However, there are so many ways to express your love to your loved one, and one of that ways is Hug. A hug can make you share your emotion with someone you hug and because of that hugging become so important in our social life. Now, I will share you some benefits of hugging for social life.

  1. Emotional Bond between two people will be stronger after you hugging each other If you hug them often and your relation last longer, you will feel closer to your friend.
  2. You will feel safe, especially for a woman, they will feel more loved and will feel safer in your hug.
  3. As a prove we trust them. This benefit can be used when your loved one starts doubting you. You can hug him or her suddenly to show them that you really love them.
  4. Good start to fixing broken relationship. Especially if you and your beloved one fighting for something and start to keep away each other. A hug can be a good start to fixing your relationship and help you to melt away the situation.

Benefits of Hugging for Health

Aside from the benefit of hugging for our social life, Hugging still have so many benefits for our Health. Here are some benefits of hugging for health.

  1. Hugging can stimulate the performance of hormone oxytocin and serotonin. This hormone will help you to make you and your couple feel happier, erase desperation, and makes let someone feels no longer lonely.
  2. A hug can help your strained muscle to relax and release a tense in your body.
  3.  Balancing mind, a hug can help you to balance your mind and body.
  4. Hugging can distribute a positive energy to someone you hug, and let them know they are worth for you.

That is all the benefits I know from hugging. Well, we can’t avoid interacting with other people so at least we need to know what is the benefit of that interaction. If you find this article helpful and you think you are helped. Share this article with your friends, family, and everyone you loved. Stay tune in our website and thanks for reading our article.

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